How to date when... you’re afraid to say how you really feel
Afraid that speaking your mind or sharing your emotions will scare people away? Here, Beth McColl shares her advice for opening up when dating someone new
Black News 
I haven’t always been on the most familiar terms with my feelings. I knew about them, of course- but in a vague, distant relative-y type of way. They were cousins that I didn’t like much. Uncles that I hoped not to see at family dos. Nieces that I- well, you get the picture.
When it came to matters of love and dating, I thought of my feelings as complicating little distractions, and so I shunned them. There were entire relationships where I barely told myself how Ihellip;
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